Dementia Action Week (20 – 26 May 2019) unites people, workplaces, schools and communities to take action and improve the lives of people living with dementia.
Almost all of us know someone affected by dementia. But too many people living with dementia report feeling cut off from their community, losing their friendships and facing dementia alone. Having dementia shouldn’t mean an isolated life. And it doesn’t have to. Simple actions from us all can create supportive communities – where people living with the condition can continue to socialise with others, hop on the bus, go to their favourite shops or take part in local activities for as long as possible.
We have a role to play in making the UK a dementia-friendly place to live and that’s what Dementia Action Week is all about.
Leeds Diocese is officially Dementia Friendly, as a member of the Dementia Action Alliance (Yorkshire & Humberside) and the Diocesan Action Plan is on their website here . Part of the Action Plan is to develop spiritual resources for parishes and individuals to use, which will be available online. Deacon Joe Cortis, Co-ordinator for Caritas Leeds, has led the development of short guidelines for priests, ministers and extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist for offering communion to a person with dementia which are available here.
Dying Matters is a coalition of individual and organisational members across England and Wales, which aims to help people talk more openly about dying, death and bereavement, and to make plans for the end of life. For the last couple of years, Dying Matters Awareness Week has challenged us all to answer a question: What Can You Do? How can we help ourselves, or families and our communities face up to death and bereavement?
For 2019, they will ask another question: Are We Ready? It’s a question that challenges each of us on several levels. Are We Ready for our own deaths, or the deaths of those we care about? This is a practical question – wills, funeral planning and more – but of course it’s also emotional, even spiritual for some of us. For many of us, the answer will not be ‘yes’. We know from the research we’ve done that most people haven’t taken care of the practical aspects, which include deciding on organ donation, and planning our future care. And even for those that have, the emotional aspect of being ready for death is challenging. Who is ever really ready to die?
Such questions are best faced with the help of others, which is why we’re asking ‘Are We Ready?’ To face death and dying is a challenge greater than any one of us can face alone, and it is all of our responsibility. We’re in this life together, so our question is asking much more of us than you might think.
Are We Ready to help others get their affairs in order?
Are We Ready to help people we know who are caring for someone who is dying?
Are We Ready to support someone who is grieving?
Or even something as simple as “Are We Ready to talk about it?”
We can only know the answer if we start to have the conversation, and as we’ve said before, talking about it won’t make it happen. And those conversations don’t stop in our private lives – they have to form a part of the public debate as well. Are We Ready to volunteer at a local hospice? Are We Ready to support a bereavement charity? Are We Ready to do what we can in our communities to help people be ready?
After centuries of ministering to the dying, the Catholic Church has a fund of experience to share in what was traditionally called the art of dying well, or in Latin, Ars Moriendi https://www.artofdyingwell.org/ .
‘Who will help me when I’m no longer able to help myself?” is one of the key questions that worries people ageing without children.
One in five people over 50 in the UK don’t have any children and by 2030 there will be 2 million people over 65 without children. In Leeds there are 232,120 people over 50 which means there are likely to be approximately 46,000 people without children.
People may have questions about how to plan properly for their future, including arranging a Power of Attorney and thinking about Advanced Directives.
The Leeds Ageing Well Without Children group is hosting an information session about what happens when people need that kind of support but don’t have it easily available.
The session will include a presentation from Emsleys Solicitors and discussion about death doulas (what they are and how they can help).
Emily Axel, a volunteer with the Leeds AWWOC group said:
“We’re a small group but are keen to provide information and support to local people who are getting older and don’t have family to support them. We want to have a conversation about what people would find most helpful so that we can try to provide it.”
Open to all. Conference fee of £30 (£25 to CCoA Members) includes all preparatory material, lunch and all refreshments.
Conference September 2019
BEING OLD, BEING BOLD
Living by faith, seeking truth, and accepting challenge
Are you interested in making more of life for older people in the Church? You are invited to join CCoA for a conference.
This is a rare opportunity to hear what can be done AND to discuss what you are doing.
The day will include:
David Jolley, Honorary Reader The University of Manchester; retired Consultant and Professor of Old Age Psychiatry, reflecting on Intergenerational Fairness & Provision
Helen McCormack, currently Ministry with Older People Development Worker, Northallerton asking Special Need or Special Contribution?
Rita and Paul Conley, The Salvation Army reporting on Older Prisoners, New Ways of Working
Albert Jewell, retired Chaplain in MHA and Methodist minister discussing People with Dementia: a Christian Response
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Contributions from participants on local Church activity
Inter-active Musical Interlude with a Sheffield U3A Ukulele Group
Christians on Ageing is a resource to the Churches and a voice for older people. This conference will help to plan new ways of giving support, spreading ideas and promoting good practice.
Talking ‘bout my Generation is an intimate conversational theatre show exploring what it means to be an older person living in the UK right here, right now. Devised by the company under the direction of Leeds Beckett University’s Teresa Brayshaw, and her team of creative practitioners ( Charli Veal, Steph Donohoe & Beth Milner )Talking ‘bout my Generation addresses issues around ageing and ageism: the personal, the political and the possible. Written & performed by a group of Leeds participants age 65 and over Talking ‘bout my Generation was developed at The School of Film, Music & Performing Arts through the CINAGE: Live project.
CINAGE: Live’s work and Talking ‘bout my Generationhas been presented at a range of festivals including.
The Demarco Archive at Summerhall, Edinburgh International Fringe Festival (2018);
The Writing on Air Festival Chapel Radio ELFM – a piece for 7 voices, (2018)
The Cornerstone Festival Liverpool (2018)
The 8th conference of the ESREA Network ‘ELOA:IDENTITY, VOICE, CREATIVITY, ACTION!’ (2017).
Ticket Price: Pay what you decide
Date/Time:
08.05.2019 = 18:00pm
09.05.2019 = 13:00pm
10.05.1019 = 18:00pm
Register your interest in this event to be notified when bookings open during March.
Talking ‘bout my Generation is an intimate conversational theatre show exploring what it means to be an older person living in the UK right here, right now. Devised by the company under the direction of Leeds Beckett University’s Teresa Brayshaw, and her team of creative practitioners ( Charli Veal, Steph Donohoe & Beth Milner )Talking ‘bout my Generation addresses issues around ageing and ageism: the personal, the political and the possible. Written & performed by a group of Leeds participants age 65 and over Talking ‘bout my Generation was developed at The School of Film, Music & Performing Arts through the CINAGE: Live project.
CINAGE: Live’s work and Talking ‘bout my Generationhas been presented at a range of festivals including.
The Demarco Archive at Summerhall, Edinburgh International Fringe Festival (2018);
The Writing on Air Festival Chapel Radio ELFM – a piece for 7 voices, (2018)
The Cornerstone Festival Liverpool (2018)
The 8th conference of the ESREA Network ‘ELOA:IDENTITY, VOICE, CREATIVITY, ACTION!’ (2017).
Ticket Price: Pay what you decide
Date/Time:
08.05.2019 = 18:00pm
09.05.2019 = 13:00pm
10.05.1019 = 18:00pm
Register your interest in this event to be notified when bookings open during March.
Time to Shine is offering an opportunity for staff 55 and older to attend a Transition into Later Life training course. Developed with funding from the Gulbenkian Foundation the two day course is aimed at anyone who is thinking about retirement soon, or in a few years, and wants to prepare positively for the coming changes.
Maybe you have chosen to retire, or are thinking about when you might leave your present job. Maybe you are glad to go, maybe you’re dreading all that freedom or perhaps you are planning a new career in something you love!
This course offers a gentle way to explore, with others going through the same thing, what the years ahead could look like to you and what you can do to make it happen.
Courses during 2019 will be on April 15&16th, and June 14&17th If you would like to know more please email or ring Jessica Duffy 0113 2441697 jessica@opforum.org.uk
The cost of the course is greatly subsidised by Time to Shine Lottery Funding so in 2019 will cost only £40 to those working for NGOs, £60 to those working for Public Bodies and SMEs and £80 to those working for those working for large businesses.
Inner Wheel Club of Aireborough are hosting a performance of DON’T LEAVE ME NOWby Brian Daniels followed by a discussion about the subject then tea and biscuits.
Inspired by two real stories, the play explores with humour and insight the impact of early onset dementia on two very different families – a journey of love, loss and duty.
‘the play is subtly powerful, sympathetic and sharp, sad and funny……. Where dementia is the villain, words are priceless’ Howard Jacobson, Booker Prize winning author (New Statesman, 2016).
This play has had more than 150 performances throughout the UK.
There is no charge for entry, but donations would be welcomed.
If you would like to discuss how Growing Old Grace-fully might help support older people in your parish then please visit our contact page here and get in touch.